Smear Campaigns and Why They Can Be More Dangerous Than You Understand

A "bad relationship" and accusations thrown... It's more normal than not. No shared children or assets, I had no reason to think I needed to do anything but move on with my life.

Without fully realizing it, I was beat with every branch that narcissistic abuse outlines.  

I have found the MOST out of line and COMPLETELY "wrong timing" falsified legal/medical documentation that in hindsight I see that because I did NOT have the reaction (losing it) to "final discard" that I was apparently supposed to, it became someone's obsession to make those illegal actions on their part have "merit" or someone was screwed.

 Here is where the line is crossed.  There are two schools of thought A) There was a giant conspiracy to harm and nearly kill my child B) Someone else lied about his head injury... possibly saying I made it up for my "attention seeking".  

One of the alleged narcs has been rumored to have "Munchausens" and "Munchausens by Proxy".  I made my feelings of  how I felt about this very vocal. Possible "projection".

 I don't know and really don't care.  See, no matter what "limitations" of reaching out my Facebook or phone had on them, I was there.  It wasn't his fault and it wasn't mine. 

 I was the one who held his head in my hands while the base of his skull filled with an orange sized pocket of blood.  I was the one who thought my only child was going to die.

  Did I "flip out" on everyone not attending to him quickly enough? Yep.  This was not a time to "bait" or prove I was "unbalanced".  This was about HIS LIFE.

 I was very upset to see that he was being absolutely brow beat for being nearly killed by ignoring this injury. 

 Imagine my FEAR to find out after his last concussion that the symptoms he had after his first head hit post first head injury was "Post Concussion Syndrome"... Brain swelling while in the care of people who did not either A) CARE B) BELIEVE IT HAPPENED.

 This is still "in play".

  I have a son who had a traumatic brain injury in addition to at least two more concussions.  Couple that with stealth shaming and abuse, two more "non-organic" issues are in play.

 As a mother, I have a job to raise a responsible young man.  I was on track for this PRIOR to my smear campaign. He's NOT the same.  But, I should tell him to "suck it up"?

I KNOW others were okay with his possible death.  I am supposed to act like "whoever" is no longer a danger?

THIS is the game changer for those who bought only part of a story.  Everyone has always loved him. THAT is when you see others change their attitude... It happened today.

 When you throw in what REALLY happened to an innocent fifteen year old kid to hurt his mother, people change their opinion quick. 

 Now, no one wants to speak.

Why? While "buying in" to my "insanity", they signed up as accomplices for attempted murder or manslaughter.  See the problem? 

 #Criitical #Thinking