They DO NOT stop... The sad truth about "just move on"

Every time someone tells a survivor of abuse by a Cluster B person to "just move on", they need to be fully aware they are enabling further abuse by failure to listen and or educate themselves.

 It's not that we CAN'T move forward, it's that they will NOT stop.

  They are covert, they are sneaky and they bait to make the victim appear bat shit crazy by speaking the truth.  It SEEMS unreal.

  Trust me. I live it.  

"Having a psychotic break" would have actually been a relief in comparison and wake up from the "white jacket" and "anti-psychotic med" slumber to realize it was in fact your crazy ass, you "wake up" and you're "back to normal".

  As a living and still victimized victim of this fuckery, I know that all I would ask of anyone is to EDUCATE themselves about this. 

 READ the "guidelines and tactics" of this kind of abuse.  READ the personality types.  LISTEN to the stories of other victims who have zero to do with anyone you know or any involved party knows.

 THEN, give them the courtesy of listening.  The identity of the ACTUAL victim will reveal itself.

 So SIMPLE... The worst thing someone would have to admit is they were wrong.  I can assure you that to a victim, those who stand up and reach out are the ones they will extend understanding.

Food for thought.